Less than 15% of Couples orgasm at the Same Time

internetwinnage:

uncutting:

sexreeducated:

If you’re always trying for simultaneous orgasms, stop. For most couples, it’s impossible to control. Trying just adds a level of pointless pressure — and, usually, disappointment. It’s tough to surrender to the moment if you’re gauging your partner and your partner is gauging you. Instead, take turns so you can each give in and fully enjoy yourselves. Look at simultaneous orgasms as nice but rare thing, like seeing a shooting star or winning $5 on a scratch-off ticket.

I agree with this. Sometimes I’ve thought too hard about trying to sync up our orgasms, and it wound up distracting me from enjoying things. Just let them happen naturally.

especially because I usually have like….6 or 8 before we decide we’re done, so there’s that too.

I think being really tired helps? Every time rope boy and I manage to have simultaneous orgasms it’s usually when we’re both super tired.

(Source: women.webmd.com)

obsessionfull:

What Lot’s Wife Would Have Said (If She Wasn’t A Pillar of Salt)

hipstergriff:

eating-poetry:

Do you remember when we met
in Gomorrah? When you were still beardless,
and I would oil my hair in the lamp light before seeing
you, when we were young, and blushed with youth
like bruised fruit. Did we care then
what our neighbors did
in the dark?

When our first daughter was born
on the River Jordan, when our second
cracked her pink head from my body
like a promise, did we worry
what our friends might be
doing with their tongues?

What new crevices they found
to lick love into or strange flesh
to push pleasure from, when we
called them Sodomites then,
all we meant by it
was neighbor.

When the angels told us to run
from the city, I went with you,
but even the angels knew
that women always look back.
Let me describe for you, Lot,
what your city looked like burning
since you never turned around to see it.

Sulfur ran its sticky fingers over the skin
of our countrymen. It smelled like burning hair
and rancid eggs. I watched as our friends pulled
chunks of brimstone from their faces. Is any form
of loving this indecent?

Cover your eyes tight,
husband, until you see stars, convince
yourself you are looking at Heaven.

Because any man weak enough to hide his eyes while his neighbors
are punished for the way they love deserves a vengeful god.

I would say these things to you now, Lot,
but an ocean has dried itself on my tongue.
So instead I will stand here, while my body blows itself
grain by grain back over the Land of Canaan.
I will stand here
and I will watch you
run.

By Karen Finneyfrock